lonely
A1Pronunciation
UK
- /lˈəʊnli/
US
- /ˈloʊnli/
Description
- sad because alone
- feeling disconnected
- isolated
- longing for company
This feeling is not only about being alone. It is the sad sense that you do not have the closeness, care, or company you want. A person can spend time alone and feel calm, while someone at a busy party can still feel this way if they do not feel close to anyone there.
It often shows up after moving to a new place, losing someone important, or going through a time when friendships or relationships feel distant. The word can describe a person, a moment, or even a place that feels empty and without warmth. In everyday use, it usually carries a quiet wish for connection.
Loneliness is the feeling of being cut off from other people in an emotional way. It often includes sadness, emptiness, or a strong wish for company. Being alone does not always mean feeling this way, because some people enjoy solitude. The key difference is whether a person feels connected and cared for, not simply whether other people are physically nearby.
This feeling can be temporary, such as after moving to a new city, starting at a new school, or losing an important relationship. It can also last for a long time if someone feels unseen, unsupported, or unable to build close bonds. In that sense, the word often points to an unmet need for belonging rather than simple physical separation.
The word "lonely" can describe people, periods of life, and places. You might speak of a lonely child at school, a lonely evening in a new apartment, or a lonely road stretching through the countryside. When it describes a place or scene, it often suggests silence, distance, emptiness, or the absence of human warmth.
In stories and everyday speech, "lonely" usually has an emotional tone. It suggests more than being by oneself; it suggests missing connection. Depending on context, it can point to quiet sadness, abandonment, distance, or a deep need to be known and included.
Examples
- 1
New city
I felt lonely after I moved to a new city.
- 2
Quiet evenings
She gets lonely in the evenings, when the house is quiet.
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Workplace isolation
Even in a crowded office, he sometimes felt lonely.
- 4
Missing friends
He was lonely for his friends back home.
Pattern
lonely for + person/thing
missing them and wanting them near
- 5
Remote work
It can be lonely working from home every day.
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Empty place
They walked along a lonely road with no houses for miles.
Meaning
a lonely place
empty and far from other people
- 7
Entrepreneurship
Starting a small business can be a lonely experience.
- 8
Success idiom
It's lonely at the top, so she tries to stay close to her old friends.
Phrase
It's lonely at the top
successful or powerful people may feel isolated
Forms and spellings
3 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- lonelyadjective
Forms
- loneliestsuperlativeadjective
- loneliercomparativeadjective