apologize
A2Pronunciation
UK
- /əpˈɒlədʒˌaɪz/
US
- /əˈpɑləˌdʒaɪz/
Description
- Say sorry
- express regret
- admit fault
- make amends
To apologize isn't just about saying the words "I'm sorry." It's about acknowledging that you've done something wrong – whether it's a small slip-up or a serious mistake – and expressing genuine remorse. Think of a time you accidentally stepped on someone's toe. A quick "Oops, sorry!" is an apology. But if you intentionally tripped them (don't do that!), your apology would need to be much more heartfelt and explain why you regret your actions. Sometimes, apologizing also means offering to fix the situation or make things right. It's a crucial part of building and maintaining healthy relationships – from friendships to professional connections. A sincere apology can often mend fences when excuses alone cannot.
To apologize means to express regret for having done something wrong or causing offense. It's more than just uttering the word "sorry"; it involves acknowledging your mistake, taking responsibility for your actions, and conveying genuine remorse to the person you've harmed.
The context of an apology is important. A simple "I apologize" might suffice for a minor inconvenience – bumping into someone on the street, for example. However, a more serious offense requires a detailed explanation, acceptance of blame, and often, a commitment to change or make amends. You might apologize profusely after accidentally deleting an important file at work, explaining how it happened and offering to restore it if possible.
The verb "to apologize" can also be used in more formal settings. Diplomats might issue apologies on behalf of their countries for past wrongs, or a company might apologize to its customers for a product defect. In these cases, the apology often comes with promises of corrective action.
Interestingly, you can apologize to someone (the direct recipient of your actions) but also apologize for something (the act itself). "I apologize to Sarah for being late," versus "I apologize for my tardiness."
Ultimately, a sincere apology is a powerful tool for repairing relationships and demonstrating respect. It shows humility, empathy, and a willingness to learn from your mistakes – qualities that are valued in all aspects of life.
In older or more formal writing, apologize can sometimes mean to defend or justify something (like offering an "apology" in the sense of an apologia). In everyday modern English, though, the usual meaning is simply to say you’re sorry.
Examples
- 1
Neighbor noise
I apologized to my neighbor for the noise last night.
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Being late
She apologized for being late and joined the meeting quietly.
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In person
He came over after dinner to apologize in person.
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Hurtful comment
You should apologize to her for what you said.
- 5
Service message
We apologize for any inconvenience caused by the delay.
Usage
Common in formal messages from companies or services
- 6
Bad treatment
He never apologized for how he treated me.
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Possible misunderstanding
I apologize if I gave you the wrong impression.
Usage
apologize if ... is often used when someone may have upset someone without meaning to
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Needing help
You don’t have to apologize for needing help.
Forms and spellings
4 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- apologizeverb
Forms
- apologizedpast tenseverb
- apologizing-ing formverb
- apologizesverb