WordGarden.iotantalize
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /tˈɑːntəlˌaɪz/
US
- /ˈtænəˌlaɪz/
Meanings
Verb
to tease someone with something desirable that remains just out of reach
to sexually arouse or tease someone
Beyond the definition
Imagine the smell of freshly baked cookies drifting through the air, but you cannot have one yet. That sharp feeling of wanting something because it seems so near is exactly what it means to tantalize. It is the act of teasing someone with the promise of pleasure or satisfaction, while keeping it just out of reach or making them wait for it.
The word comes from Greek mythology. King Tantalus was punished by the gods and forced to stand in water beneath branches full of fruit, but both moved away whenever he tried to eat or drink. That story gave the word its image: something desirable is shown so clearly that the wanting grows stronger. A movie trailer might tantalize viewers with hints of an exciting story, or the smell from a bakery might tantalize people walking by.
To tantalize means to tease or excite someone by showing, suggesting, or hinting at something they want, while not fully giving it to them. Often, the thing desired is just out of reach, delayed, uncertain, or only partly revealed. The result is a mix of attraction and frustration. For example, "The aroma of roasting chicken tantalized her as she walked past the restaurant," suggests the smell awakened a strong desire for the meal before she could enjoy it.
Tantalize is used in both literal and figurative contexts. You might tantalize a kitten by dangling a piece of string just above its paws, or a politician might tantalize voters with promises of change without giving clear details. Advertisements, trailers, travel photos, and delicious smells can all tantalize because they make people want something more strongly.
The heart of the word lies in the story of Tantalus. For his crimes against the gods, he was condemned to eternal hunger and thirst in the underworld. Every time he reached for fruit, the branch moved away; every time he bent to drink, the water pulled back. That image of desire sharpened by denial still sits at the center of the word, even when modern usage is lighter and less severe.
It is important to recognize that tantalize often carries a hint of teasing, provocation, or frustration. It is not simply about wanting something good. It is about the tension created when that good thing is displayed, suggested, or promised without full satisfaction. Whether you are describing the scent of a favorite dessert, the glimpse of a new product before release, or the playful teasing of a pet, to tantalize is to awaken desire and leave it unsatisfied, at least for the moment.
Examples
- 1
Bakery smell
The smell of fresh bread from the bakery tantalized us as we stood outside.
- 2
Movie trailer
The trailer tantalized fans with a few dramatic scenes but gave away almost nothing.
- Patterntantalize someone with + small glimpse
make them want more by showing only a little
- 3
Travel idea
She was tantalized by the idea of spending a year in Tokyo.
- 4
Job offer
The recruiter tantalized him with the prospect of leading his own team.
- Patternthe prospect of + noun/-ing
the possibility of it happening in the future
More examplesFewer examples
- 5
News article
The article tantalized readers with hints of a larger scandal that it never fully explained.
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Used with (collocations)
- tantalize someone with something
- tantalizing glimpse
- tantalizing prospect
- tantalizingly close
Word family
Explore
- temptation
- delayed gratification
Forms and spellings
4 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- tantalizeverb
Forms
- tantalizing-ing formverb
- tantalizedpast tenseverb
- tantalizesverb