WordGarden.ioestrangement
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /ɛstrˈeɪndʒmənt/
US
- /ɪˈstreɪndʒmənt/
Meanings
Noun
the state of being emotionally or socially distant from someone once close
a feeling of alienation or disconnection from people, places, or oneself
an artistic technique that makes familiar things seem strange or unfamiliar
Beyond the definition
This word is not just about being far away in space; it is about an emotional gap that grows between people over time. Think of two ships sailing in opposite directions: once close, now fading into the horizon. It often appears in stories about family members, close friends, or spouses who no longer speak warmly or regularly to each other. A classic example is a parent and child whose communication has broken down and whose bond has weakened. Sometimes this happens because of one painful event, and sometimes because of a slow drift, but it always points to a loss of closeness.
Estrangement describes a state of distance or alienation that is usually emotional rather than physical. It is more than a simple disagreement; it suggests that a close relationship has been damaged to the point that warmth, trust, or regular contact has been lost. It is most often used for broken relationships between family members, spouses, or close friends, though it can also describe a person feeling cut off from a community, a place, or even a former sense of self.
The roots of estrangement are often complex. It may come from unresolved conflict, different values, betrayal, or simply the gradual build-up of hurt and silence over time. Sometimes it is an active choice, a deliberate breaking of ties for safety or self-protection. At other times, it is a passive process: a slow drifting apart in which communication fades and emotional closeness wears away.
You might read about estrangement in literature that explores family trouble, social isolation, or identity. A character may feel estranged from their community after a traumatic event, or from their own past after a major life change. The word usually carries sadness and loss, suggesting that there was once a real bond that has been seriously changed or broken.
Ultimately, estrangement speaks to the fragility of human relationships and the pain of disconnection. It reminds us that closeness can weaken when trust, care, and understanding are no longer sustained.
Examples
- 1
Family contact
After years of estrangement, she finally called her brother.
- 2
Parent relationship
His estrangement from his father began when he left home at sixteen.
- Patternestrangement from + person
a damaged or distant relationship with that person
- 3
Family conflict
The divorce led to a long estrangement between the two families.
- Patternestrangement between + people/groups
a broken relationship involving both sides
- 4
Language distance
Living abroad for so long gave her a feeling of estrangement from her own language.
See also
Similar
Shades of meaning
- disaffection
- emotional distance
- falling out
Contrast
Used with (collocations)
- family estrangement
- parent-child estrangement
- estrangement from
- years of estrangement
Word family
Explore
- cutoff
- social isolation
Forms and spellings
2 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- estrangementnoun
Forms
- estrangementspluralnoun