WordGarden.iounman
A1Pronunciation
UK
- /ʌnmˈæn/
US
- /ʌnˈmæn/transitiveverb
Meanings
Verb
to overwhelm someone emotionally so they lose composure or resolve
to make a man feel less masculine or less powerful
Beyond the definition
To "unman" someone means to break their courage or self-control. It is usually used for moments of fear, shock, grief, or distress so strong that a person feels shaken and unable to stay steady. Imagine news or a sight so upsetting that it leaves someone helpless for a moment: that is the heart of being unmanned. The word comes from older ideas about "manly" strength, but in practice it often points more generally to a deep loss of nerve or composure.
The word "unman" has a fascinating history rooted in old-world ideas about masculinity and strength. Historically, it could literally mean to deprive someone of their "manhood"—either through castration or by stripping away their virility. While that literal meaning is archaic, the core idea of stripping away internal strength and resilience remains central to its modern use.
To unman someone today usually means to overwhelm them emotionally or mentally, leaving them vulnerable and robbed of their self-control. It rarely involves physical force; instead, a shocking revelation, a terrifying sight, or even intense grief can "unman" a person. Think of a seasoned professional breaking down in the face of an unexpected crisis: they have not lost their physical power, but their inner resolve has been shaken.
Shakespeare frequently employed this concept to explore the boundaries of courage and guilt. A famous instance occurs in Macbeth during the banquet scene; when Macbeth is paralyzed by the sight of Banquo's ghost, Lady Macbeth questions his bravery, eventually telling him he is "quite unmann'd in folly." To the Elizabethans, to be unmanned was to lose the stoicism expected of a leader.
While less common in everyday text messages or casual conversation, "unman" still appears in literature and formal writing to describe a loss of dignity or a deep psychological blow. It suggests an experience so intense that it fundamentally, if only momentarily, alters your sense of self and stability.
Examples
- 1
Personal shock
The news of his brother's death nearly unmanned him.
- Usage
unman is formal and old-fashioned in modern English
- 2
Disaster scene
For a moment, the sight of the wreckage unmanned even the captain.
- 3
Literary grief
In the novel, the hero is briefly unmanned by grief before he regains control.
See also
Forms and spellings
4 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- unmanverb
Forms
- unmannedpast tenseverb
- unmanning-ing formverb
- unmansverb