squabble

To squabble means to argue or bicker over something trivial, a small matter that is not worth a serious dispute. It suggests a noisy, often childish argument filled with complaints and petty disagreements. Unlike a serious conflict, a squabble rarely involves deep problems or lasting resentment.

The word evokes a sense of fussiness and irritation. You might say, "The children were squabbling over the remote control," or "Don't waste your time squabbling about who did what—just get the job done!" It often implies that the argument is more about principle or stubbornness than actual disagreement.

Historically, "squabble" appeared in the late 16th century and is believed to be imitative in origin, echoing the noisy, chattering sound of a petty dispute. That fits the often sharp, fussy, and slightly silly feeling the word carries. While you might have a serious fight with someone, you squabble over small things. It is a lighter term than "fight" and usually suggests irritation more than real anger.

So, if you find yourself caught in a minor disagreement about something unimportant, perhaps the correct way to load the dishwasher or whose turn it is to take out the trash, you are likely in a squabble.