politely
B1Pronunciation
UK
- /pəlˈaɪtli/
US
- /pəˈlaɪtli/
Meanings
Adverb
in a courteous or respectful way
Beyond the definition
Imagine offering someone a cookie. You could just shove it at them, but doing so politely means handing it to them with a smile and saying "please." It's about showing consideration for other people's feelings and behaving in a way that does not offend.
We use "politely" to describe how something is done, not necessarily what is done. You can politely disagree with someone, politely ask for help, or even politely decline an invitation. It adds a sense of care and respect to an interaction. Think of it as adding "please" and "thank you" to your actions.
To do something politely means to act in a way that shows consideration, respect, and good manners toward others. It's more than just avoiding rudeness; it's about actively demonstrating kindness and thoughtfulness in your interactions.
"Politely" is an adverb: it describes how an action is performed. While it can be used to describe personal habits, like "eating politely" by using good table manners, it is most often used to describe social interactions. For example, saying "She politely asked if I wanted another helping" emphasizes the courteous way she asked rather than just the act of asking.
Context matters. Politely requesting something from a friend is different from politely speaking to a manager at work. In both cases, it means being respectful and considerate, but the level of formality might change. You might use more formal language or show extra respect in a professional setting.
Sometimes, "politely" implies navigating a difficult situation with grace. For example, the sentence "He politely refused to answer the question" suggests he didn't want to reveal information but did so without being rude. It's about finding a way to be assertive while still respecting others.
So, whether you're asking for a favor, offering feedback, or simply engaging in conversation, acting politely is about making others feel comfortable and valued through your considerate behavior.
Examples
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Greeting
She smiled politely and shook his hand.
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Polite request
I asked politely if I could open the window.
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Customer service
The receptionist politely explained that the office was already closed.
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Disagreement
He listened politely, even though he disagreed with most of what she said.
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Formal refusal
We politely declined their invitation because we were busy that night.
- Phrasepolitely decline
say no in a formal or respectful way
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Firm decision
The manager told him, politely but firmly, that the meeting was over.
- Phrasepolitely but firmly
respectfully, but without changing the decision
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Soft criticism
To put it politely, the plan needs more work.
- Phraseto put it politely
used before saying something negative in a softer way
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- ask politely
- speak politely
- politely decline
- smile politely
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- politelyadverb