WordGarden.ioincivility
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- /ˌɪnsɪˈvɪlɪti/
Meanings
Noun
rude or discourteous behavior or speech
Beyond the definition
Imagine walking into a busy bakery, eager for a treat, only to have someone cut in front of you without so much as an "excuse me." That's the kind of rude, disrespectful behavior this word describes. It's more than just bad manners; it's a lack of respect for other people and their feelings, often shown through rude or disruptive behavior. While a single moment might seem minor, repeated behavior like this can create a hostile environment. You might see it in political debates, online forums, or even in everyday situations like road rage.
It isn't necessarily illegal - it's about breaking the unwritten rules of polite social behavior. Think of it as the opposite of courtesy. A politician known for fiery rhetoric might be accused of encouraging rude behavior among supporters. Or a heated argument between neighbors could grow into yelling, insults, and other disrespectful behavior.
Incivility refers to a lack of politeness, respect, or consideration in behavior. It's more than just being rude; it's a pattern of disrespectful actions that can undermine social harmony and create hostile environments. While rudeness is often a single instance of bad manners, incivility suggests a broader disregard for the norms of respectful interaction.
Historically, the word "incivility" comes from the Latin incivilis, meaning "not belonging to a citizen," which suggests a lack of proper social behavior expected within a community. Today, we see it in many forms - from interrupting someone while they're speaking and using offensive language to personal attacks and aggressive online trolling.
Incivility is increasingly common in public discourse, particularly in politics and on social media. The anonymity offered by the internet can embolden people to engage in behavior they might avoid face to face. A rise in incivility has been linked to increased polarization and a breakdown of constructive dialogue.
However, it's not limited to grand gestures or public figures. Incivility can also be subtle - like ignoring someone's contributions in a meeting, consistently being late for appointments, or dismissing another person's feelings. It's important to recognize that while everyone has moments of frustration, consistent displays of disrespect constitute incivility and can have damaging consequences for relationships, communities, and society as a whole.
So, when you notice behavior that feels deliberately disrespectful, dismissive, or disruptive, you're likely witnessing incivility at work. It's a signal that the social contract is fraying and that respectful communication is breaking down.
Examples
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Customer service
The airline apologized for the incivility shown to passengers during the delay.
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Workplace
Repeated incivility at work can lower morale and make people afraid to speak up.
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Everyday behavior
The article argues that small daily incivilities, such as interrupting or refusing to say hello, slowly damage trust.
- Grammarincivilities
small rude acts, used in the plural
See also
Similar
Shades of meaning
- boorishness
- abrasiveness
- impertinence
Contrast
Used with (collocations)
- workplace incivility
- online incivility
- political incivility
- acts of incivility
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Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- incivilitynoun
Forms
- incivilitiespluralnoun