civility
B1Pronunciation
UK
- /sɪvˈɪlɪti/
US
- /səˈvɪləti/
Description
- politeness
- respect
- courteous behavior
Civility isn't just about good manners; it's about showing respect for others, even when you disagree with them. Think of a lively debate – civility allows people to express opposing viewpoints without resorting to insults or personal attacks. It's the oil that keeps social interactions running smoothly. A lack of civility can quickly turn a disagreement into a shouting match. In times of political division, calls for greater civility are often heard, urging people to listen and understand each other despite their differences.
Civility refers to polite, respectful, and considerate behavior towards others. It's more than just saying "please" and "thank you"; it encompasses a broader sense of social grace and a willingness to treat everyone with dignity, regardless of their background, beliefs, or status. The word comes from the Latin civilis, meaning "relating to citizens," suggesting that civility is essential for a functioning society.
Historically, civility was considered a hallmark of educated individuals and noble classes – demonstrating self-control and refinement. Today, it's recognized as crucial in all aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional settings and public discourse.
A lack of civility can manifest in many ways: rudeness, aggression, disrespect, or simply a disregard for the feelings of others. In modern society, we often see calls for greater civility in political debates, online interactions, and everyday conversations. While passionate disagreement is healthy, civility ensures that these discussions remain productive and don't devolve into personal attacks.
You might say, "Despite their differing opinions, they maintained a level of civility throughout the discussion," or "The politician was criticized for his lack of civility towards his opponent." Civility isn't about agreeing with everyone; it's about how you disagree. It's the foundation of respectful communication and peaceful coexistence.
Examples
- 1
After an argument
Even after the argument, she spoke to him with civility.
- 2
Hospitality
The hotel trains its staff to treat every guest with civility.
- 3
Tense meeting
Basic civility disappeared as the meeting grew more tense.
- 4
Public debate
The mayor called for more civility in public debate.
- 5
Disagreement
You can disagree strongly without losing your civility.
Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- civilitynoun
Forms
- civilitiespluralnoun