WordGarden.iofondle
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /fˈɒndəl/
US
- /ˈfɔndəl/
Meanings
Verb
to touch or stroke someone gently, affectionately, or sexually
to touch someone sexually without consent or abusively
to handle or touch an object gently or admiringly
Beyond the definition
To fondle something is to touch it gently and repeatedly in a loving or sensual way. You might see it used for a baby's hand, a pet's ears, or a valued object held with special care. It suggests soft, lingering contact rather than a quick touch. In modern English, though, the word often has an uncomfortable tone because it is also used for sexual or unwanted touching. The meaning depends strongly on context, and in many everyday situations people choose a simpler word like "caress," "stroke," or "hold gently" instead.
The word "fondle" describes a gentle, lingering way of touching something with affection, pleasure, or strong personal feeling. It goes beyond simply holding something; it suggests soft, repeated contact, such as caressing or stroking. You might imagine someone touching a baby's curls, stroking a pet, or running their fingers over a valued object with obvious care. In these uses, the action feels tender and deliberate.
The word can also be used for handling an object in a way that suggests pleasure, pride, or even obsession. For example, a writer might describe someone fondling a coin, a photograph, or even a weapon, not because of love exactly, but because the person is absorbed in the act of touching it. This use can make the scene feel intimate, strange, or slightly disturbing. Figurative uses do exist, but they are much less common than the physical sense.
In contemporary English, context matters a great deal. Because "fondle" is often used in legal, social, and news contexts for sexual or unwanted touching, it now frequently carries a negative or sexual meaning, even when that is not intended. For that reason, speakers often avoid it in innocent situations and choose safer alternatives like "stroke," "caress," or "gently hold." The core idea is still soft, repeated, intimate touching, but the word now carries more risk and weight than many learners might expect.
Examples
- 1
Sentimental object
She sat quietly, fondling the ring her mother had given her.
- 2
Shopping
Several customers were fondling the sweaters to check how soft they were.
- 3
Crime context
The man was arrested for fondling a woman on the train.
- Caution
When the object is a person, fondle usually suggests sexual touching and sounds strongly negative.
See also
Forms and spellings
4 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- fondleverb
Forms
- fondling-ing formverb
- fondledpast tenseverb
- fondlesverb