stepmother
B2Pronunciation
UK
- /stˈɛpmʌðə/
US
- /ˈstɛpˌməðər/
Description
- Father's wife, not your birth mother
- Woman who joins a family through marriage
- Female parent in a blended family
A stepmother is the woman who marries your father and is not your birth mother. She becomes part of the family through marriage, usually in a blended family. In real life, this relationship can be close, distant, easy, or hard, depending on the people involved. The word is also common in stories, where stepmothers are sometimes shown in a negative way, but in everyday life a stepmother may be caring, supportive, and deeply important in a child's life.
The word "stepmother" describes a woman who is married to your father but is not your birth mother. She becomes part of the family through marriage, not through birth. This usually happens in a blended family, where children and parents are bringing together parts of different family histories.
People often meet this word first in stories and fairy tales, where a stepmother is sometimes shown as cold, unfair, or cruel. Because of that, the word can carry emotional ideas beyond its basic meaning. Still, those old story patterns do not describe real life for many families. In everyday use, a stepmother may be kind, loving, strict, helpful, distant, or somewhere in between, just like any other parent figure.
The relationship between a child and a stepmother can take time to grow. In some families, she helps raise the child every day. In others, she plays a smaller role but is still an important member of the family. So the word does not tell you what the relationship feels like. It simply names a woman who has joined the family by marrying the child's father.
Examples
- 1
Family change
After his father remarried, he started living with his stepmother.
- 2
Long-term relationship
My stepmother has been in my life since I was six, so our relationship feels very natural.
- 3
Becoming a stepparent
When Nina married a man with two children, she became a stepmother to a ten-year-old boy and his sister.
Pattern
became a stepmother to + child
started being that child's stepmother
- 4
Family support
At the meeting, several stepmothers talked about the challenges of joining an existing family.
- 5
Story stereotype
The film avoids the usual evil-stepmother stereotype and shows her as warm and supportive.
Phrase
evil-stepmother stereotype
the common story idea that a stepmother is cruel
Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- stepmothernoun
Forms
- stepmotherspluralnoun