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B2Pronunciation
UK
- /hjˌuːmɪlɪˈeɪʃən/
US
- /hjuˌmɪliˈeɪʃən/
Meanings
Noun
a painful feeling of shame or embarrassment
an act or event that makes someone lose dignity or respect
Beyond the definition
Humiliation is the painful feeling of being deeply embarrassed, put down, or made to feel small and worthless. It is more than a brief awkward moment. It can deeply hurt a person's confidence and sense of self-respect. Imagine making a mistake in front of a large crowd and hearing people laugh at you. That captures the feeling well.
The word comes from the Latin humilis, meaning "low" or "close to the ground." That fits the idea of being "brought low" in front of others. This feeling may come from our own public mistakes, but it often happens when someone is mocked, harshly criticized, or publicly shamed. In Shakespeare's Twelfth Night, Malvolio goes through this kind of painful experience after he is tricked into acting foolishly and is then mocked by others.
Humiliation is a deeply painful emotional experience marked by intense shame, disgrace, and a loss of dignity. It happens when a person's pride or sense of worth is badly damaged, often in public or through the cruel actions of another person. Many people know what simple embarrassment feels like, but this goes further. It can stay in the mind long after the moment is over.
At its core, humiliation involves powerlessness and vulnerability. It can come from failing in public, being mocked for who you are, or being betrayed in a way that leaves you exposed. A child may feel it when a parent constantly belittles them. An adult may feel it when a failure at work is exposed and discussed in front of others.
The effects can be serious and long-lasting. Repeated experiences of being shamed can lead to low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and deep resentment. It can damage relationships and make people withdraw, become angry, or want revenge.
Still, this emotion is complex. A painful experience of this kind can leave lasting harm, but in some cases, working through it can also lead to greater self-understanding and strength. In Charles Dickens' Great Expectations, Pip faces several public and private moments of disgrace tied to his social position. Those experiences push him to question his values and grow into a more honest and compassionate person. Even so, the word mainly refers to the painful act or feeling of being brought low, shamed, or stripped of dignity.
Examples
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Personal embarrassment
She felt a rush of humiliation when everyone started laughing at her answer.
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Painful experience
Having to ask his former boss for work again was a humiliation he never forgot.
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Public humiliation
The coach apologized for the public humiliation of the young player.
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Needing help
Many people fear the humiliation of needing help with basic tasks as they get older.
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National shame
The scandal was widely seen as a national humiliation.
See also
Similar
Shades of meaning
- mortification
- abasement
- loss of face
Contrast
Used with (collocations)
- public humiliation
- deep humiliation
- suffer humiliation
- fear of humiliation
Word family
Explore
- social stigma
- self-esteem
Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- humiliationnoun
Forms
- humiliationspluralnoun