flirty
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /flˈɜːti/
US
- /ˈflɜrti/adjective
Description
- playfully attractive
- teasingly romantic
- showing interest
Being "flirty" means acting in a playful, attractive way that suggests romantic or sexual interest without saying it directly. It often feels light, teasing, and a little suggestive. You might notice it between people who are already dating, or when someone is showing interest at the start of a relationship. A flirty text message might include a wink, an emoji, or playful teasing. Still, this kind of behavior should be respectful and welcome, because what feels fun to one person may feel uncomfortable to another. Think of it as playful attention that may or may not be serious.
"Flirty" describes behavior that is playful, charming, and full of small or clear signs of romantic or sexual interest. It is more than just being friendly. It usually involves trying to get someone's attention through teasing, compliments, suggestive remarks, or light, playful physical touch.
Context matters. This kind of behavior can happen between people who are already together as a way to keep some excitement alive, or it can appear early on when two people are testing whether the interest goes both ways. A flirty conversation might include playful jokes, meaningful eye contact, compliments about appearance, or words with a double meaning. Think of characters in romantic comedies: their conversations are often full of this kind of playful attraction.
However, "flirty" is not always positive. It should be mutual and respectful. What one person sees as playful teasing, another might find rude, unwanted, or even harassing. That is why it is important to notice boundaries and pay attention to social cues.
The word is also often used for online behavior, such as messages with suggestive jokes or emojis, and for personality, as in "He's a naturally flirty person." At its core, "flirty" is about creating a feeling of playful attraction, somewhere between clear interest and a little uncertainty.
Examples
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Facial expression
She gave him a flirty smile across the table.
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Social behavior
He was getting flirty with everyone at the party.
Pattern
flirty with + person
acting in a playful, romantic way toward them
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Conversation tone
Their chat stayed light and flirty all evening.
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Work message
That message felt a little too flirty for a work email.
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Speaking style
She has a flirty way of talking that some people find charming.
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Clothing style
The brand is known for flirty summer dresses and bright colors.
Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- flirty