WordGarden.iocondolence
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /kəndˈəʊləns/
US
- /kənˈdoʊləns/
Meanings
Noun
an expression or message of sympathy, especially after someone's death
sympathy or sorrow felt for another person's loss or suffering
Beyond the definition
When someone experiences loss, offering condolences means sharing in their sadness and providing comfort. It's more than just saying "I'm sorry"; it's a heartfelt expression of sympathy during difficult times. While you most often offer condolences after the death of a loved one, it can also be offered after other serious losses, such as a miscarriage, a difficult diagnosis, or losing a home. Think of it as lending emotional support when someone is grieving. A simple card with "My deepest condolences" can mean a lot to someone in pain.
The word condolence comes from Latin roots meaning "to suffer with." It is the expression of sympathy and sorrow for someone who has experienced loss, misfortune, or hardship. While "sympathy" acknowledges another's pain, condolence is the specific act of offering comfort in response to a bereavement—though it can be extended to other significant life losses as well.
Offering condolences isn't about fixing the situation; it's about acknowledging the pain and letting someone know you care. It often takes the form of words, like "I was so saddened to hear about…" or "My heart goes out to you," but can also be expressed through actions—a thoughtful card, a helping hand, or simply being present.
In everyday English, you will often hear it in the plural: condolences, as in "Please accept my condolences."
Historically, condolence had more formal rituals associated with it, particularly in cultures where mourning practices were elaborate. Today, while the expression remains deeply personal, it's often conveyed in simpler ways. You might read about public figures offering their condolences to families affected by a national tragedy, or a friend offering theirs after a pet passes away.
It is important to remember that condolence isn't just about the words used; sincerity is key. A genuine expression of sympathy can provide immense comfort during times of grief and loss. When someone is hurting, offering your condolences—with heartfelt empathy—can make all the difference.
Examples
- 1
Formal sympathy
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your mother.
- Phraseaccept my condolences
a polite, formal way to express sympathy after a death
- 2
In-person sympathy
Friends and neighbors came by the house to offer their condolences in person.
- 3
Workplace letter
After the accident, the company sent a letter of condolence to the employee's family.
See also
Similar
- sympathy
- commiseration
- expression of sympathy
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Used with (collocations)
- offer condolences
- express condolences
- send condolences
- my deepest condolences
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Main spelling
- condolencenoun
Forms
- condolencespluralnoun