WordGarden.ioinsensitive
C1Pronunciation
UK
- /ɪnsˈɛnsɪtˌɪv/
US
- /ˌɪnˈsɛnsətɪv/
Meanings
Adjective
not showing care for other people's feelings
not physically feeling or responding to a sensation
not affected by or responsive to changes or influences
Beyond the definition
Being insensitive means lacking awareness of other people's feelings. It's like accidentally stepping on someone's toes: you didn't mean to hurt them, but you weren't paying enough attention to avoid it. An insensitive remark might be a joke that falls flat because it touches on a painful topic, or giving unwanted advice when someone is clearly upset and just needs someone to listen. It's not necessarily malicious, but it can still cause pain. Think of a character who is so caught up in their own world that they fail to realize how their words affect those around them; they aren't trying to be mean, they just aren't "tuned in" to the emotional tone of the room.
The word "insensitive" describes a lack of understanding or consideration for the feelings of others. It goes beyond simply being rude; it implies a failure to recognize or appreciate how your words or actions might affect someone emotionally. An insensitive person may make thoughtless remarks, dismiss another's concerns, or fail to offer support when it is most needed.
The context of this behavior is important: sometimes insensitivity stems from simple ignorance—not knowing what is appropriate to say or do in a specific situation. Other times, it comes from a deeper lack of empathy—an inability to truly understand or share how someone else feels. It can manifest as blunt honesty delivered without tact ("You've gained weight!") or a dismissive attitude toward someone's struggles ("Just get over it!").
However, insensitivity isn't always intentional. Someone might be genuinely unaware that their behavior is hurtful. In fact, some people pride themselves on being "brutally honest," mistaking harshness for authenticity. But even unintentional insensitivity can damage relationships and create emotional distance.
Consider a character in a novel who constantly interrupts others or makes light of serious topics—they're likely portrayed as insensitive. Or imagine a friend offering unsolicited advice when you've just shared heartbreaking news; that would be a classic example of insensitive behavior. Learning to recognize and avoid insensitivity is crucial for building strong, healthy connections. It requires active listening, empathy, and a consistent willingness to consider the impact of your words and actions on others before you speak.
Examples
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Hurtful comment
That was an insensitive thing to say.
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Offensive joke
He made an insensitive joke about her accent.
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Apology
I'm sorry; I didn't realize my question sounded so insensitive.
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Scheduling
It was insensitive of them to hold the meeting during a major holiday.
More examplesFewer examples
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Cultural awareness
The ad was criticized as culturally insensitive.
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Workplace policy
The policy seemed insensitive to the needs of part-time workers.
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Emotional reaction
After years in customer service, she had become almost insensitive to criticism.
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Physical sensation
The damaged nerve left part of his hand insensitive to heat and cold.
See also
Similar
Shades of meaning
- thoughtless
- tone-deaf
Contrast
Do not confuse
Used with (collocations)
- insensitive remark
- insensitive to someone's feelings
- culturally insensitive
Word family
- insensitivity
- insensitively
Explore
- empathy
- social awareness
Forms and spellings
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Main spelling
- insensitiveadjective