WordGarden.iogentility
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /dʒɛntˈɪlɪti/
US
- /dʒɛnˈtɪlɪti/
Meanings
Noun
refined manners or social respectability associated with high status
people of genteel or high social rank considered as a group
Beyond the definition
Gentility is not just about being rich or coming from a noble family, though it was often tied to that world in the past. It is more about the polished, well-mannered way a person seems to move through life. Think of someone who stays calm, courteous, and graceful even in a tense moment. That is gentility in action. The word suggests refined manners, elegance, and the kind of social polish once linked with the upper classes. Today it can still bring to mind old-fashioned politeness and a quiet, graceful style.
The word gentility has a long social history. It originally referred to the qualities linked with the gentry or nobility: good birth, education, polished manners, and an elegant way of living. Over time, the meaning widened. Today, gentility usually describes refined, courteous behavior and an air of grace or social polish, whether or not the person actually comes from a high social class.
In the past, gentility mattered a great deal in societies with clear class lines. Showing gentility could help a person fit into a certain social world and be accepted there. Think of Jane Austen's novels: characters are often judged by their manners, their breeding, and the impression they give.
But gentility is not only about formal etiquette. It often suggests softness of manner, consideration for others, and a calm, controlled way of behaving. In some contexts, though, the word can also point more to outward polish than to deep character. Someone may show gentility because it is natural to them, or simply because they have learned the manners of a refined social circle.
While the rigid rules once tied to gentility have mostly faded, the word still carries a feeling of elegance, courtesy, and old social refinement. You might describe an old house as having "an air of gentility," or say that a person handled a difficult moment with gentility. In many cases, the word points to both polished behavior and the social world that shaped it.
Examples
- 1
Social status
Even after the money was gone, the family tried to preserve an air of gentility.
- Patternan air of + quality
a general feeling or quality of that thing
- 2
Old hotel
The old hotel still has the quiet gentility of another era.
- 3
Personal manner
She moved through the crowded room with effortless gentility.
- 4
Hidden attitude
Beneath his polished gentility, there was a sharp sense of superiority.
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Main spelling
- gentilitynoun