fend
C2Pronunciation
UK
- /fˈɛnd/
US
- /ˈfɛnd/
Meanings
Verb
to defend against or ward off an attack, problem, or unwanted attention
to manage or look after oneself without help
Beyond the definition
To fend means to protect yourself or take care of your own needs, usually without much help. Think of a traveler in the wilderness: they must fend for themselves by finding food and building shelter. The word often appears in two common patterns. To fend for yourself means to survive or manage on your own. To fend off something means to keep it away or fight it back. A parent might fend off a threat to keep a child safe. If someone tells you to "fend for yourself," it means you have to handle things alone.
To fend means taking action to protect yourself or someone else from harm, danger, or trouble. Very often, it appears as fend off, which means to drive something away or keep it from reaching you. A knight might fend off a dragon's strike with a shield. In everyday life, a person might fend off unwanted attention, rude questions, or pressure from others, using firm words or quick thinking instead of force.
But fending is not only about blocking danger. It is also closely tied to survival and independence. When a person must fend for themselves, they are taking care of basic needs such as food, shelter, or money when no one else is helping. This can describe a young adult living alone for the first time, or a family trying to manage after a natural disaster.
Historically, the word comes from defend, and that old sense still sits at its core. Whether you are pushing back a real threat, protecting someone you love, or simply getting through a hard situation with your own effort, fend carries the idea of resisting danger and managing on your own.
Examples
- 1
Independent living
When he moved to another city for college, he had to fend for himself.
- Phrasefend for yourself
take care of yourself without much help
- 2
Physical protection
She raised her arm to fend off the dog.
- 3
Business competition
The company lowered its prices to fend off new competitors.
- Patternfend off + threat
prevent something unwanted from causing problems
- 4
Personal questions
He kept joking to fend off personal questions.
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- 5
Unwanted attention
She smiled and gently fended him off when he tried to kiss her.
- Patternfend someone off
keep someone away, including unwanted romantic attention
See also
Forms and spellings
4 forms open this card.
Main spelling
- fendverb
Forms
- fending-ing formverb
- fendedpast tenseverb
- fendsverb